Viewing and Visitation

A viewing refers to a time when the casket is open and those attending are able to see their loved one.

A visitation is a designated period before the funeral service when the casket—either open or closed—is available for family and friends to gather, offer support, and spend time remembering the person who has passed. This time also allows guests to share condolences with one another in a more relaxed setting than the formal service itself.

Visitations can be brief, lasting only a short time before the service, or they can extend over multiple days. They may be held privately for close family, open to the community, or arranged with separate private and public hours.

Some families choose to include a small ceremony during the visitation, while others prefer to keep the time informal. A structured moment might include prayers, readings, or traditions specific to one’s faith or culture. An informal gathering may simply involve quiet reflection or conversation.

The word wake is sometimes used to describe the gathering that takes place after a funeral. Historically, however, a wake was the period when loved ones stayed near the body—often through the night—sharing stories, offering support, and keeping watch. Food, fellowship, and storytelling often played a meaningful part in this tradition.

For families who feel comfortable with it, sharing memories during visitation or a wake can be an uplifting and healing experience. Stories can be heartfelt, humorous, or a blend of both—because the way we remember someone often includes their imperfections as much as their strengths. Laughter can be just as powerful a sign of love and emotion as tears.

Some families even choose to record these conversations so the memories can be preserved and revisited in the future.